Sunday, February 7, 2010

Veloseepead Budlaska




Well I didn't quite make it to post for the one month home anniversary. It's amazing how kids who haven't had one on one time with parents really seem to need alot of it. Okay I know that is not surprising at all.

We took Wayne's old bike and lowered the seat and handlebars. It was a pretty good fit for Ivan. Of course then I spent the rest of the day listening to the two younger ones beg for a veloseepaed budlaska (Bicycle, please, Pleeeeeaaseeee) We held out until about 4 pm. Then went and bought a couple of bikes with training wheels. They road until dark and then wanted the cars moved out of the garage. I figured fine a few minutes in the confines of the garage and they would be tired of it. Silly Dad. Except for supper they spent the rest of the evening until worship riding in the garage.

For worship we decided that at least until they understand more English that we would do videos. I figured Adventures in Odyssey would be good. They liked those but they really love the "Love Comes Softly" western series. They will cheer when the good guys do the right thing or when the bad guys get tripped up and caught. It surprised me that they liked the western. Maybe it helped that school took the kids to the National Western Stock Show. Proud Papa here, I have to add that Ivan got an award (ribbon) for being one of the fastest on the peddle tractor race. At the end of worship we have what the kids now call Heysuss, tank you, tank you. I know they are listening because that is pretty much how I always start prayer. Dear Jesus, thank you....

When we were raising Wendell and Wayne we would always rotate who had prayer that night. This round the kids think it is an election and they vote. I tried a few sentences in Ukrainian which they found terribly entertaining, probably because they were too informal or baby talk like. Anyway I am now elected 90% of the time. Ivan and Alex have each tried a time or two in Ukrainian, I'm not sure what was said but I am sure that there was someone who did and loved it even more than Teresa and I.

We went to the airport to meet Richard and Anastasia (Cindy had come back earlier.) Unlike our evening at the Roge's our kids were much more relaxed and interacted with other Ukrainian kids. We had eaten together with Richard, Cindy & Anastasia in Kyiv when we were all there. When I showed them pictures from church of all of us together they were very excited to go to the airport. Nadia wanted to hold the little bag with a small gift for Anastasia and be the one to give it to her.

There are challenges but I think we and the kids have done really well together. The damaged items list continues to grow but nothing as expensive as the first couple of weeks. We have key locks for the master bedroom, office and basement. We also invested in about a thousand paper plates and half that many paper cups. We won't win any environmental awards but it sure makes life easier.

We are still hoping and praying for Felix and others who are currently in Ukraine trying to complete adoptions. Ukraine has again changed the rules and now requires that prospective adoptive parents also get Interpol police clearances which may take up to 40 days to process.

Ukraine also completed their presidential election today. Victor Yanokovich won by about 4 or 5 percent. Interestingly he was the one who the Ukrainian courts ruled had fraudulently stolen the election five years ago. So it looks like Ukraine will probably drift back toward closer relations with Russia and will be unlikely to be looking for NATO membership. Ivan was very surprised when we were watching Internet TV from Ukraine. He said he didn't know many people in the part of Ukraine where he lived who would have voted that way. He gave thumbs down to Yanokovich and also to current president Yushenko.

Enough rambling for tonight.

4 comments:

Heidi and Felix said...

Yeah on the 1 month anniversary! I hope that you come back to our house even though you felt that the kids were roudy. Could have been my fault. I encouraged the wrestling match...thought I'd give you back a rest. The chocolate foutain and soda might have contributed, too.

Thank you for the prayers. I need to get this done and home while I still have my sanity. Hope to see you at the airport in a couple of weeks!

Felix

Heidi and Felix said...

Enjoyed your update! I am still surprised by how much one-on-one our kids need, but it does get better and easier!

My best friend dropped off more clothes for your kids last night! A reason to get together!

Heidi

Anonymous said...

It's good to hear that things are going so well. It was so great to see you guys at the airport - we could see a visible calmness over the kids that wasn't there before. At least they're enjoying some good exercise with the bikes that will help them sleep good at night! Your times of worship sound so precious - you are doing such a wonder in their lives.

Kari said...

Fun reading the update on the kids. I love how you "held out until 4:00" and then bought two more bikes. Sounds like they are thoroughly enjoying American life.